Well, it has been a while since I last posted and lots has happen. The week after my friend's daughter was killed, my own husband Wally was in a roll-over. It was not a full size rig, just one of those side-by-side atv. However the damage was still pretty ugly. He was putting the rig away and thus no helmet or seat belt. He drove down the driveway past the other parked vehicles and then made a right turn it the gravel. That is when the whole rig rolled onto its side. Wally walked away with road rash on his forehead, seven stitches in the side of his left eye, bruising on his left arm from elbow to shoulder, cuts and scrape on the inside of his right arm, bruising on his right leg and a cracked chest(the kind of cracked that CPR victim's have). That was November 14th and his chest is still sore. The eye healed up well but has a scar, the forehead is a nice healthy pink(not his normal tan color) and all the bruising is gone. I was waiting for him to get off work so was there when it happened. It could have been much worst. He could have died himself and top speed was maybe 10 miles an hour. Very scary and I have never thought those atv were safe. Now I am positive it will take quite a bit to get me to ride in one...
On other news, both the boys are failing classes(not all). I am at my wits end on how to help them. They just do not turn in homework. I have removed all electronics from their rooms. I make them sit down every night for one hour(or better) to work on work(at 8pm to make sure I am there to watch) and they are still failing. Kayvon I think is just bored with the classes and the other class he just hates. Jacob I just think he feels I will correct it somehow. I took away Jacob's wrestling, I hated to do it but am not sure how to get through to him on getting the work done and turned in. If anyone has suggestions, feel free to email me....
Which leads to chores. Both my boys have had chores since they were little. Clean rooms, and pick up and then as they got older to household chores. Kayvon does a pretty good job and thus just has the kitchen(daily, unless he is gone and then I do it) and bathroom(weekly), while Jacob has dusting(weekly) , vacuuming (weekly), kitty litter and dog poop patrol(daily, and with only one cat that spends her days out side and only the dog poop for two dogs in the driveway or yard, there is not much). They no longer have a horse of their own so I do the feeding and such with the horses and I also do the chickens(feed and eggs). I also ask Jacob to fill the water troughs and tanks for the horse and chickens, but that is around once every third week. Both must maintain their rooms. As for laundry, I will put it through the washing and drying if it is in the laundry area, I will not look for it nor fold it. In the end Kayvon has the bigger job. He does a great job. Jacob has what I think are the easiest chores, however he can not get them done and when he does it is a half-baked job...I have tried assigning extra chores, grounded him from going places and from TV and we still can not get them done on a regular basis. He does chores like he does school work. I am just frustrated and am at the end of my ideas to help. Thank goodness they are good at school and are no in any kind of trouble...
Horses are doing good. I have not had time to ride in the last month. The weather has been beautiful, but with the holidays and Wally wreck I just have not had the time to get out and ride. I miss it terribly.
I will try to keep things here more up-to-date, but life has a way of taking it own course...
Till then,
Me
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